Aditi Rao Hydari Says Growth Means Embracing Change

HYDERABAD-Actress Aditi Rao Hydari, who turns 40 on October 28, is reflecting on nearly two decades in cinema with gratitude, clarity and curiosity. As she approaches the milestone birthday, she says personal growth is about embracing change without losing the childlike happiness and curiosity within.

Asked what advice she would give her younger self, Aditi said she would encourage herself to remain authentic, trust the people who support her growth and avoid rushing to have everything figured out.

“I would tell her to just happily be herself, not listen to the noise, trust the ones who will nurture her and challenge her. To not be in a hurry to have everything figured out. To enjoy learning, to always be curious, to be unafraid to make mistakes because you can and you will turn them around,” she said.

Looking back at her journey, the actress acknowledged that the road has not always been easy. Rather than dwelling on disappointments or unfair experiences, she chooses to focus on the lessons she has learnt and the ability to overcome challenges.

“I choose to be grateful for every blessing, and the ability to overcome and not dwell on situations that feel unkind or unfair. It’s always been an uphill climb, but while every step uphill is tough, it’s a step up and as long as I am able to do that, I’m grateful,” she said.

At this stage in her career, Aditi also emphasizes the importance of recognizing her worth and choosing projects and collaborators who challenge and value her.

“I believe that I must and will be the best version of myself, work hard and work with the best who demand the best of me and also value me. I’m determined to work in this way. If people mess with me, deny me what I deserve then that’s on them… it’s their karma,” she said.

With her birthday falling around Diwali, the festival has long been part of her childhood memories. However, the actress prefers intimate celebrations with loved ones overelaborate plans.

“I don’t usually make elaborate plans for my birthday. I like spending time with the people I love. For me, birthdays are more about feeling centered and rooted. And infact, not making any plans… Impromptu plans feel the most magical and fun,” she said. (IANS)