Not Having Kids A Conscious Choice: Neha Bhasin

MUMBAI -Singer-songwriter Neha Bhasin and music producer Sameer Uddin opened up about their decision to not have children.

During their appearance on a YouTube show, they revealed to host Rashami Desai that they never wished to have their own children. The couple said they believe that legacy does not have to be biological.

Calling it a conscious choice, Neha and Sameer said, “We never wanted to have our own kids. There is no specific reason. I mean, we both feel that we want to end our attachments and illusions with ourselves. Legacy doesn’t necessarily have to be biological. For both of us, this choice is personal, and we stand by it peacefully.”

Neha added, “Honestly, people like Sam and me, I say this with love, should not get married. Because they’re not those Einstein-type people who want admiration. Their first love is creation. You’ll always be their second love.”

She further revealed that she never felt misunderstood in her marriage.

“For me, what I love about this relationship is that I’ve always felt misunderstood in life, and in this marriage, I never feel misunderstood. Just like he accepts ten things about me that may not be great, I accept things about him. Like, I’ve accepted that Sam will work till 4–5 a.m. Even when there’s no work, he’ll still work. You literally leave him where you left him, and after 12 hours, you’ll find him sitting in the same place,” the singer shared. (IANS)